By the age of three a toddler requires eleven hours of consistent, quality sleep. Toddler sleep problems stand in the way of consistent quality sleep and this can lead to health issues such as a lower immunity, temper tantrums, a slower brain function, and a poor diet, to name a few.

For many toddlers just the mention that “It is bedtime” sends them into sheer disarray. (1)Crying and a defiant attitude usually accompany this disarray. This is the start of the bedtime nightmare for parents. (2)The continuance of their crying or temper tantrum once they are in bed. (3)Getting them to stay in bed without screaming after the parent leaves the room. (4)Not getting out of bed in the middle of the night, when they wake up.

With the above 4 areas under control toddler sleep problems will be solved and parents will have a pleasant, warm and cuddly bedtime, free from screaming, night waking, and health issues.

1. Shshsh…. Dont say the words “Its bedtime.” or anything even close to. Instead use atmosphere and quality time with your toddler to let him know it’s time to wind down. This manipulation should begin 20 minutes BEFORE the time you put in place for your toddler to be in bed.

Create a cozy, calm and quiet atmosphere. Dim the lights, watch a little Animal Planet and cuddle with your toddler. A baby massage is a wonderful relaxation technique for both parent and toddler and can be done as part of the winding down process.

2. Find and Remind. On the way to his room, think of something fun and exciting for your toddler to do the next day. It could be an afternoon of play dough fun, or perhaps he has a party to go to, or finger painting, or a play in the park. Remind him of it. A little secret: tell him you are looking forward to doing it with him (ensure that you are able to do this. Otherwise do not offer this statement.

3. The Bedroom: short and sweet. This is an area many parents get wrong. At bedtime your toddler’s bedroom should be within the same atmosphere as when you were winding him down. Prepare his bedroom before you start the winding down process. Bedroom atmosphere encompasses a night light and soft music.

The time you spend in your toddler’s room after he is in bed needs to be short and sweet. Sit on edge of the bed next to your toddler and read a story, softly. Stroke his hair or use his favorite toy. Quietly remind him of the fun that awaits him the next day if he gets a good night rest. Mention that you are also very tired and heading off to bed. Kiss him goodnight and off you go.

4. When he starts to cry, tell him you love him and you will check on him in a bit before you go to bed. Ignore his crying. While in his room do not appear stressed. Know in your mind that all will be well. Your toddler will feel this and it will help him adjust to his new bedtime routine.

In 9 out of 10 cases your toddler will fall asleep very shortly. However, if you prolong your time in his room and show your fear of his crying he will recognize this and use it as a tool to get you to stay until he falls asleep, which causes him to stay awake longer, lessening his sleep time and lessening your free time.

Quality and quantity sleep is a must for toddlers. Don’t allow toddler sleep problems to get in the way of his health and well being. Nip this problem in the bud before it does harm to you and your toddler.

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have you ever relieved insomnia (or any sleep problems in general) by taking a vitamin supplement alone?

I’ve read being deficient in some vitamins can sometimes lead to insomnia. If you personally experienced the benefits of taking vitamins on sleep could you tell me a bit about it? (any answers are welcome though) Thanks.

Answer
This is not a cure but it helps once in awhile. Make a cup of tea with 2 Sleepytime tea teabags ( you can get it at the store) and about a half cup of catnip. Let it sit for a few hours. Take that with 2 tylenol p.m.’s. you can get it without the tylenol too. It’s called ‘just sleep.’ It will knock you out for hours. Do it when you have time to sleep for about 10 or 12 hours. If you do this once in awhile, it helps.

By the age of three a toddler requires eleven hours of consistent, quality sleep.  Toddler sleep problems stand in the way of consistent quality sleep and this can  lead to health issues such as a lower immunity, temper tantrums,
a slower brain function, and a poor diet, to name a few.

For many toddlers just the mention that “It is bedtime” sends them into sheer disarray. (1)Crying and a defiant attitude usually accompany this disarray. This is the start of the bedtime nightmare for parents.  (2)The continuance of their crying or temper tantrum once they are in bed. ( 3)Getting them to stay in bed without screaming after the parent leaves the room.  (4)Not getting out of bed in the middle of the night, when they wake up.  With these 4 areas under control toddler sleep problems will be solved and parents will have a pleasant, warm and cuddly bedtime, free from screaming, toddler night waking, and health issues.

1.  Shshsh…. Don’t say the words “Its bedtime.” or anything even close to. Instead use atmosphere and quality time with your toddler to let him know it’s time to wind down.  This manipulation should begin 20 minutes BEFORE the time you put in place for your toddler to be in bed.  

Create a cozy, calm and quiet atmosphere. Dim the lights, watch a little Animal Planet and cuddle with your toddler. A baby  a wonderful relaxation technique for both parent and toddler and can be done as part of the winding down process.

2. Find and Remind.  On the way to his room, think of something fun and exciting for your toddler to do the next day.   It could be an afternoon of play dough fun, or perhaps he has a party to go to, or finger painting, or a play in the park.  Remind him of it. A little secret: tell him you are looking forward to doing it with him (ensure that you are able to do this. Otherwise do not offer this statement.

3. The Bedroom: short and sweet.  This the area many parents get wrong. At bedtime your toddler’s bedroom should be within the same atmosphere as when you were winding him down. Prepare his bedroom before you start the winding down process.  Bedroom atmosphere encompasses a night light and soft music.

The time you spend in your toddler’s room after he is in bed needs to be short and sweet. Sit on edge of the bed next to your toddler and read a story, softly. Stroke his hair or use his favorite toy. Quietly remind him of the fun that awaits him the next day if he gets a good night rest. Mention that you are also very tired and heading off to bed. Kiss him goodnight and off you go.

4. When he starts to cry, tell him you love him and you will check on him in a bit before you go to bed. Ignore his crying. While in his room do not appear stressed.  Know in your mind that all will be well.  Your toddler will feel this and it will help him adjust to his new bedtime routine.  

In 9 out of 10 cases your toddler will fall asleep very shortly.  However, if you prolong your time in his room and show your fear of his crying he will recognize this and use it as a tool to get you to stay until he falls asleep, which causes him to stay awake longer, lessening his sleep time and lessening your free time.

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Do you think that doctors blame sleep problems on sleep apnea?

Because they don’t know the real reason why you can’t sleep. Or is it a big money maker somehow?
And yes I do know I snore. I was told that I do.
I am in no way saying there are no good ethical doctors. I know of many good ethical and caring doctors.
No I don’t believe I have this. I am just saying is that is medically a popular condition to test for. And sometimes when they don’t know the attribute the symptoms to apnea.

Answer
Sleep studies and UPPP’s are big business.

When we are talking about toddler sleep problems, we should definitely divide them into the difficulty to put the kids to sleep and the issues that may appear in a variety of forms over night. Many parents are frustrated when nothing seems to work when trying to put their toddlers to sleep: all of a sudden the little ones need to eat something, potty, listen to a story, get a favorite blanket or toy and so on. What exactly could one do to solve toddler sleep problems? There are various reasons for which a child refuses to go to sleep; first and foremost try to identify what the problem and what is actually going on in your child’s mind.

Some toddler sleep problems are triggered by fear of the dark: you may easily solve this by letting a bed lamp on over night or an electric candle that would spread a diffuse and comforting light in the room. Sometimes, children find it impossible to go to sleep because a lot of interesting things seem to go on in the house: hearing the parents voices talking about something may leave the impression that there is something going on that he or she needs to know. Or there could be simply the well known separation anxiety that affects most toddlers.

The key to eliminating most toddler sleep problems lies in the creation of a routine. Like for many adults who use the pattern creation to deal with insomnia, parents can apply the same principles for their siblings. Start the bet time routine the same way and carry it on until the toddler is ready to fall asleep. A possible example would involve: teeth brushing, story reading, then sleeping. Try to stick to the same bed hour and not change it every evening; most parents find it comfortable to put their toddlers to sleep at nine o’clock.

There are psychological solutions to solving toddler sleep problems; there are reward games you can play with the child reinforcing positive statements and offering small prizes when he or she goes to sleep without any fuss at all. Severe measures need to be taken when you fail to see any results after several weeks of such attempts, in such cases there may be something wrong with the way your child perceives sleep and being alone and you will have to look deeper into the matter.

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